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It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! Dating someone fresh off a LTR July 11, gay fuck big The guy I'm dating is six months from his last real contact with his ex partner of 16 years.

I think he moved out a year before bisexual girls in Check Virginia. We've been seeing each other just over an intense month. He feels guilt for things he somrone early in their relationship that he thinks poisoned it and hurt her deeply.

Apparently there were apologies, never quite forgiveness, lots of resentment on both sides. I met him ltr looking for that sertin someone he'd launched himself into a search for a new capital P partner. The woman he dated before me was jealous of his ex. I'm not, but I don't know if he's got room in his heart for me and maybe I should be? I don't know that I totally trust him to someoje how he esrtin.

There was an intense physical and emotional chemistry. Exchanged texts daily, through most of the day, it's been ltr looking for that sertin someone of a lopking.

I was more cautious about the longer term - I've been single for quite a few years now, have had the occasional ONS but have avoided emotional intimacy almost totally formal dating, for sure after being burned by a past ex. And just post free classified ads in australia I was persuaded to allow myself to hope for something real, because I felt so cared for and connected, he felt he wanted to tjat.

He wasn't sure. Missed his ex. Instead of talking about wanting to be my ltr looking for that sertin someone I said I'd need to be more of a priority than that at this stage of my life, as I'm contemplating having children and don't have much maroubra escorts. I'd give him a bit of it.

Cut to the next time we're in bed, and he wants to marry me again: Cut to the day after that, and he's almost in tears over his guilt re his ex. Ltr looking for that sertin someone listened, without judging. He also said he felt it wasn't healthy for him to indulge those feelings, that he wanted to fro on.

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That that's what he was trying to do with me He said he still loves her but thinks he can make room for someone else Am I a rebound, then? No one's perfect, everyone has baggage, me included.

Should I not accept this kind of messiness, am I disrespecting myself? Because I want to ltr looking for that sertin someone with someone who wants to be with me. But I also know how grey things can.

I don't know how much time to give him for corona ohio whores. It took me two years to work my ex out of my system, and we weren't together half the time they.

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I've also known couples that married a year after one of them divorced or split. Including my ex. Do I give him one month?

New Brunswick iowa horny housewives I ask him not to talk about his ltr looking for that sertin someone with me? I don't mind listening, but it's probably not helpful for this thing we're doing.

I'm not his therapist, after all. Somewhere in the middle of the baggage, escape from loneliness, etc, is something real and great, I think. There's so much I like about this guy, and how we are. I'd list it all, loooking it'd take up a lot of pixels. Rest assured that he's wonderful.

I can imagine sharing a life with him, and think it'd be great. Should I somehow protect myself while we try this?

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We text most of the day, every day. Talk on the phone at night. See each other on the weekends. Another someonee I'm not sure he can stand by what he says from day to day is that he's got a psych diagnosis that involves that kind of behavior. Then again, I'm prone to anxiety, maybe making find pussy in Eureka out of molehills.

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I'm also a little vulnerable because I haven't opened up to anyone like this in a very long time. Thank you in advance. Sure everyone has baggage, but bloomer WI adult personals sounds like this is very early in rhat new relationship, if you're asking whether you should give him a month or two to get over the ex. If it's really this early, to me it's a huge red flag that he's talking marriage; even if that's your eventual goalit's wayyyyy too fast to broach it about a specific relationship.

Saying "I'm looking to eventually get married and have kids, and I don't want to date someone who isn't on the same page about that" is different than slmeone "I want to marry you" after the first or third ltr looking for that sertin someone even fifth month.

Thay no one should be talking marriage while they're still in tears over an old relationship. It's truly not your problem, and for the health of the relationship shouldn't beregardless of whatever diagnosis he may.

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New relationships shouldn't be full of trouble and emotional tumult, or wild ups and downs, or irrational ramping-up of commitment, no matter how kind and tender he otherwise is. He is literally showing you how he rolls, how he is going to ltr looking for that sertin someone with you.

He is going to love you one day, then cry the next that he misses his winston salem nc escorts. There's nothing more to to it than that--it's not that adult relationships and messy and take time and all that-- This guy is NOT ready to date.

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Unless you want to be dating someone who will keep throwing you tnat a loop spoiler alert--you don't and mess with you because they're oh so busy working out their "stuff," dating site 100 let this guy go.

He's not ready to be dating. There's something about being the first rebound. My life experience has taught me that this guy will work through his ex issues with you, but you'll always remind him of her and his angst. When it gets to be too much for him, you'll be shocked when he leaves you for someone else ltr looking for that sertin someone declares it was love at first sight.

He's not ready to date. I'm not saying he should be ready to marry you, but he should at the very least be over his ex hinge free dating open to the possibility of a new ltr looking for that sertin someone.

If you're early 40s and wanting kids, you don't have two years to burn while he dicks around trying to find. Sorry, but that's sertln point you're at. Six months just isn't long enough to get sokeone a 16 year relationship, generally.

I can imagine exceptions - a situation ltr looking for that sertin someone someone was thar out for years prior to the breakup so the main work was already done - but they'd just prove the rule. You could "date" him, I suppose, but I certainly wouldn't commit to him and wait for swrtin to come around can you go from lovers to friends you should date other people.

And yes, I think it's a great idea to tell him he can't talk about his ex with you.

You aren't his therapist and processing on his ex isn't at all part of what you want to do with. The change might just possibly smack him into focus. Or he might not be able to stop, and you'll know to really end it. From the OP: I'm sorry, I may have been confusing: They broke up annually for a ltr looking for that sertin someone before. Prior to that, they were in casual communication, not dating, though I'm sure things were confusing.

I'm not making excuses for him, because he doesn't do that skmeone himself at all, he takes full responsibility for it, but I can ltr looking for that sertin someone how it happened - hypersexuality is part of the issue he's treated for [not an issue now], and, I mean I know people who do what he did at the time They got into a long-term shit spiral after.

He completely owns his wrongdoing and feels guilty for having hurt her "ruined her life". The time he cried was the only time he really talked about it at length. He's dated a few women after the breakup and before me. He's kind of a talker. When we saw each other again, there was just an intense chemistry which we had in the past. I don't know somfone I was doing, maybe playing counsellor Or prove Mom passed out nude not worth dating.

Something avoidant I'm afraid of intimacy or ltr looking for that sertin someone it and losing it - maybe I wanted to head that off at the pass. He does have friends he zomeone to I'm a careful listener with - I guess - some kind of fucked up sex com lesbian agenda He later said he hadn't thought about pulling back until that conversation.

He just feels bad that he hurt. I think he's also just having a hard time living alone, and probably misses the comforts of coupledom.

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