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It was and is historic and culturally diverse. Hyde Park is by no means an idyllic enclave free from the issues that frustrate our social world.
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After two-and-half years of trying to make Indy work for me, I moved back to Cluh. Within only a few months, I joined the board of directors of Affinity Community Servicesa social justice organization serving the needs of the Black LGBTQ community of Chicago with a particular focus on Black women.
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I attended my first Pride Parade with Affinity.
For about three miles, we walked the parade route, whooping and hollering and tossing beads and other Affinity items to the hundreds of thousands of people attending the parade. We smiled for cameras and laughed amongst.
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